When Can I Go Home? (Dementia, Fathers and the Things That Cannot Be Repaired)

Older father with Alzheimer’s disease sitting beside his adult son in a care home, holding a newspaper near a photograph of his late wife.

When an ageing father begins to lose his memory to Alzheimer’s disease, his son is forced to confront not only the demands of care, but a lifetime of unresolved feeling. When Can I Go Home? explores memory, grief, paternal recognition, family history and the painful complexity of loving someone who was never easy to reach.

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The Red Kite

Red Kite circling high above a rural landscape, reflecting themes of parentification, responsibility and growing up too soon.

A fictional psychodynamic story exploring parentification, childhood responsibility and the lasting impact of growing up too soon. Through the image of a Red Kite circling high above the countryside, Clara begins to reflect upon the roles she adopted in order to survive and the question of what happens when those roles become difficult to put down.

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Married to a Narcissist

Abstract image of a man staring at his mirrored reflection, representing projection, self-awareness, and narcissistic dynamics within relationships.

He believed he was living with a narcissist. The controlling moments, the lack of empathy, the recurring arguments all seemed to point in one direction. But what happens when therapy begins to reveal that the qualities we struggle with most in others may also exist, quietly, within ourselves?

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The Quiet Inheritance

Clinical Reflections on Trauma, Attachment, and Family Patterns (Names and identifying details have been altered to protect confidentiality, and the clinical material has been sensitively adapted to ensure anonymity). The Inheritance of Emotion: How Our Past Shapes Our Present Intergenerational trauma describes the emotional patterns, beliefs, and coping strategies that are passed down through families,…

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